Evangelicals, does not worshiping Mary (the mother of Jesus) mean you should hate her?

I noticed how evangelicals refer to Mary as just someone God used to give birth to Jesus (with a tone of distaste), and if Mary didn't agree to give birth to Jesus, God will just use somebody else. By the way, they say that Mary is also a sinner since she gave birth to more children after Jesus (How does that make one a sinner, by the way, may I inquire?)